Jealousy and love are like two sides of a coin money may not be separated. Diman there is love there must be jealous. And while there is jealousy, there he actually has emerged seeds of love in the chest. Means between love and jealousy may not be separated.
In Islam too, looked between love and jealousy are two expressions of emotion that will bring the owner into heaven if correct in applying it. Jealous one of the characteristics of Paradise. SAW Allah's Apostle said, "Three groups are not going to heaven and God will not see them on the Day of Resurrection, those who rebel against their parents, women who menyrupai men and dayuts." (HR. Bayhaqi and Ahmad)
Dayuts is the husband or the head of the family who is not jealous of his wife, and vice versa. From this hadith is clearly jealous of a taste that must exist in every human being. If we look at today's life is terrible impact of the loss of this jealousy. So many current husband or wife has faded jealousy in the household.
Jealousy is indeed a strange taste. But the taste is mandatory in the case, but must also be in good control. Allah's Apostle Muhammad is already clear that there are two kinds of jealous, "There is kind of jealous that loved God, others hated him. It is preferred, that is jealous when there sagkaan or allegations. While the hated, which is jealous that are not based on doubt."(HR. Bayhaqi)
A simple treatise written by Sheikh Ibrahim bin Muhammad al-Haqil describes the particulars of jealousy according to Islam. Through his work entitled Al-ghirah Baina as-Syar'i wa al-waqi ', Ibrahim to underline the nature of the jealous feelings. According to Islam, jealous at all clean and furthest from lust and lust.
Required to have a jealous husband to his wife in order to keep the shame and glory. Jealousy is a human nature and includes noble morality. Jealousy can preserve and protect the dignity and the family of the action violated the law. Morality and moral damage in the name of modernity has eroded this jealousy. The husband is no longer sensitive to the wife of a striking appearance, clothes that do not close the genitals, his wife seduced another man, his wife seclusion with other men, and the result door wide open affair to lead to the destruction of the household.
Sa'ad bin Ubadah ra said: "If I see a man with my wife, I will surely cut down the man with the sword. "The Prophet SAW said: "Do you feel surprised with jealousy Sa`ad ..? Really I am more jealous than Sa`ad and God is more jealous than I" (Bukhari). "Allah is jealous, jealous believers, and jealousy of God if a believer does what God forbid it" (HR. Imam Ahmad, al-Bukhari and Muslim).
Well, For a man (husband), jealousy towards his wife is the recommended in Islam, as a man of honor and glory berkwajiban keep their families, as well as to account for it later in nature hereafter.
The Word of God, "Take care of yourselves and your families from a Fire. . . "(QS. At-Tahrim: 6)
So jealous that are allowed in the teachings of the Islamic religion in accordance with the provisions of which have been mentioned above. While that is not allowed is jealous without a clear rationale, prejudice debauched only to result in the destruction of the family. And in this case is called jealousy. That jealousy that no longer want to see the truth and the basics of jealousy reasons causing indiscriminate action. Also can be called jealousy deaf, that jealousy which no longer want to hear the real truth, so he did act blindly.
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